Mary Hakes Kirkham Obituary in Grande Prairie at Oliver's Funeral Home & Crematorium

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Mary Hakes Kirkham

December 09, 1927 - November 27, 2020

Obituary For Mary Hakes Kirkham

Mary Kirkham (nee Hakes), longtime resident of Sexsmith, AB, and for the past 3 years of Grande Prairie, AB, passed away on Friday, November 27, 2020, at Prairie Lake Hospice, with her son Dan at her side, at the age of 92 years.

Mary was born on December 9, 1927, in Edson, AB.

Mary fought hard since her stroke in early October. She was a devoted wife, mom, Nana and great-grandma.

She lived nearly her entire life in Sexsmith on the farm with her “Bill”. She was a proud member of the community in many aspects: from being a founding member (1^st Honoured Royal Lady) of the O.O.R.P. Lodge #266, to working alongside the crew at the Grande Prairie Auction Mart, and with Bob Scott doing farm auctions for many years.

Mary is survived by her children: Dan (Joan), Lynn Hyska and Kelvin; grandchildren: Billy (Crystal), Brian (Jaselyn) and Alexandra; great-grandchildren: Levi, Mackenzie, Lauren, and Reid; brothers: Pat (Adoline), Joe (Hedy) and Glenn;

She was predeceased by her husband Bill in 2014, her parents, and her siblings.

At Mary’s request, there will be no funeral. Cremation has taken place, and interment will be held at a later date at the Emerson Trail Cemetery with a Celebration of Life.

The family would like to thank the staff at Prairie Lake Hospice and the staff on 3 North at the QEII Hospital.

Memorial donations may be made to the Elks Lodge #284 Sexsmith - Fund For Children (Box 251, Sexsmith, AB, T0H 3C0) or to the Grande Prairie Regional Hospital Foundation (10409 98 St., Grande Prairie, AB, T8V 2E8), or to a charity of one’s choice.

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June 24, 2021

Sandboe Joanne

Kelvin, Our thoughts are with you on the passing of your Mom. It creates a hole in your world. We ran in to your Mom several times during the time we were moving Dad and she always expressed her concern for Dad and spoke of the times they had together. Take care. Joanne Darcy and Harry Rowney
June 24, 2021

Lindsay Colleen

My deepest condolences to the Family. Regards, Colleen Lindsay (Mosenko)
June 24, 2021

Olson Lois

Our sympathy goes to all the family. What a honour to have known Mary
June 24, 2021

Brown Gary

So sorry for the loss of your mother. Thinking of you all at this sad and difficult time. Condolences to all of the Kirkham family. Gary and Veronica Brown
June 24, 2021

Ward Jeannette

Condolences to the Kirkham â??kidsâ??. Thinking of you....The Florchuk â??girlsâ??
June 24, 2021

Schlosser Lisa

Our deepest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family. From: Rene and Brooke Bryzgorni and Darcy and Lisa Schlosser.
June 24, 2021

Gaunt Carolyn

Our deepest condolences on the passing of your mom. She lived for her family and was great in community involvement and now will be reunited with Bill. Rest in peace Mary from Bryan and Carolyn Gaunt
June 24, 2021

Repka Karen & Randy

Dan, sincere condolences in the passing of your mother. Keep those fond memories of her close to the heart.
June 24, 2021

Roessler Dennis and Colleen

We are saddened to hear of MaryÂ´s passing. She was a wonderful lady and a community pillar. Always busy and always concerned about others. She led a good life. I so enjoyed quick chats with her at Emerald Gardens. Our deepest condolences to all the family. You have so many years of memories to cherish and comfort you.
June 24, 2021

Coleman Brian and Mary Jane

Mary Jane and I are very sorry to hear of the passing of your dear Mother. Mary was such a great neighbor, friend, and community member. I have very fond memories of both Bill and Mary growing up on the family farm.
June 24, 2021

Derocher Wendy

Your mother was such a generous and giving member of the Sexsmith community for so many years that she will be remembered by many generations of the community with loving thoughts for years to come. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
June 24, 2021

Arndt Darlene

Our sincere sympathies to Danny, Lynn and Kelvin. Have many great memories growing up with your mom and dad as neighbors. Remember spending many a Xmas Eve with your family and many cups of coffee. May your memories help at this time. Darlene, Paul, Randy and families.
June 24, 2021

Peterson Trudy

Was sad to learn of your mom's passing. She was a strong woman with strong values. Enjoyed her visits over the years as a County resident. My sympathy to all of you, I know you will certainly miss her. Trudy Peterson
June 24, 2021

Tink Janet

I was saddened to see that Mary passed on. I got to chat with her a few times at Emerald Gardens. With CoVid I of course havenâ??t seen her, and hadnâ??t heard sheâ??d had a stroke and moved. I will always remember Mary as a kind and classy lady. Sending heartfelt sympathy to each of you and your families.
June 24, 2021

Annis (Brown) Sharon and Richard

Sending positive thoughts and prayers with strength and courage to face the days ahead to Maryâ??s family. Our association through Royal Purple was unending for some 45 years.I was a member of Grande Prairie Lodge, She from Sexsmith.Mary was a beautiful soul ,who loved her family.she loved Royal Purple and our charity, ThecElks and Royal Purple Fund for children, We attended District , Provincial and National meetings , conventions. Together. She would ride with me sometimes.great ride along companion, Mary was an awesome cook, planner, leader, and wise lady who displayed compassion for others.She looked so lovely in her purple and white, I feel blessed to have known her, treasured memories! Rest easy Dear Mary.Pleasant Thoughts to you all. Kindest regards Sharon and Richard Annis and families, Lisa, Derek Hall,Erin, Kevin Eady, Nichole Annis.

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